This is the kind of relationship advice you'd get from a grizzled bartender 30 minutes before closing time。 Sage and wise， but not delicate。 The author is casual and irreverent， and has no time for your nonsense。 But， if you listen， you'll probably wind up happier and more fulfilled。The basic premise--that you are the only person you can control and the only person you can change--is solid。 This is short and accessible， especially for people who aren't habitual consumers of books about personal This is the kind of relationship advice you'd get from a grizzled bartender 30 minutes before closing time。 Sage and wise， but not delicate。 The author is casual and irreverent， and has no time for your nonsense。 But， if you listen， you'll probably wind up happier and more fulfilled。The basic premise--that you are the only person you can control and the only person you can change--is solid。 This is short and accessible， especially for people who aren't habitual consumers of books about personal growth。 Anyone in a relationship or hoping to be in one could benefit from reading this and doing the exercises the author recommends。 It's always worthwhile to try to become a more thoughtful， intentional person。Many thanks to the publisher and NetGalley for the opportunity to read and review！ 。。。more